DOMME (Dating Term)

What Does DOMME Mean in a Text?

DOMME means "Female Dominant."

Domme (usually pronounced "dom," but sometime pronounced "dom-meh") is an abbreviation of the word "dominant." It is used to describe a sexual relationship in which a female is dominant and the other party is submissive (sub).

Domme is an element of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism).

Both female and male dominants are usually just referred to as a dom.

For more on dom/sub relationships, see D/s.

Check out our complete list of dating terms.

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meaning of DOMME

"Female Dominant"

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Definition for DOMME

DOMME means "Female Dominant." This is the most common meaning for DOMME on online dating sites, such as Craigslist, Tinder, Zoosk and, as well as in texts and on chat forums.
Definition:Female Dominant
Type:Slang Word (Jargon)
Guessability:guessability level 3

3: Guessable

Typical Users:typical user


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